CYBER-BULLYING is "when the Internet, cell phones or other devices are used to send or post text or images intended to hurt or embarrass another person".
With Facebook now infecting most young people's daily routine, and most teenagers and children owning a mobile phone, cyber bullying has rocketed. According to a government study, more than a third of 12 to 15-year-olds in the UK have faced some kind of cyber-bullying.
A survey prepared by i-Safe.org in 2004 on children in year 4-8 at school shows that 42% of kids have been bullied while online. One in four of these children have had it happen more than once. 35% of kids have been threatened online. Almost one in five of these children have had it happen to them more than once. A startling 58% of kids admit someone has said mean or hurtful things to them online. More than four out of ten say it has happened more than once.
And quite possibly the most disturbing statistic that was achieved from this survey is the fact that 58% of these children have not told their parents or an adult about something mean or hurtful that happened to them online.
We decided to brush upon this harrowing topic to show the exremities it can reach and hopefully get the message across to bullies just how much damage they are doing. If the tables were to turn and the bullies would find themselves becoming the victim then they could not take it, they use bullying as a form of defense for their own insecurities. If their victim takes in what the bully is telling them and begins to hate themself for it, then this can soon lead to self-loathing. Without the right help, the vulnerable victims can take matters into their own hands and the bullies have to live with their raging conscience for the rest of their lives.
A story that really affected us as a group, is one that we heard from our teacher as it had been in the news a few years ago:
Megan was three weeks away from her 14th birthday when she hung herself as a result of an ex-friend creating a phoney MySpace account of a 16 year old boy to lure her in and then send her harmful, abusive and terrible messages.
MySpace appeared to be an easy way for the ex-friend and her family to contact Megan under a false name, if chatrooms and social networks did not exist then circumstances like this would not be achievable. A lot of good has come from such websites, yet it is articles such as this that make the reader question the necessity of online networking.
Another, more recent article is very haunting also. This occurred a lot more recently to a girl of 7 years old called Kathleen Petrov.
Both of these stories made both myself an my entire group feel physically ill whilst also getting emotional. The selfishness of the pathetic bullies trying to ruin an innocent child's life is disgusting. These people do not deserve equality with the victims, these people should know what is morally wrong and what is right.
Studying these two incidents in such depth has really opened mine, Jack's, Claire's and Alysha's eyes to just how much damage cyber-bullying can do. We definitely feel that the song choice would be very relevant to involve a cyber-bullying storyline and we also want to spread the message as much as possible to try and prevent this from ever happening again.










